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Winter Bucket List

The most wonderful time of the year! I absolutely love this magical season. It’s the perfect time of year to cuddle up with a good book or spend time eating delicious food while celebrating with your loved ones. Yule is a time for celebrating nature and its many changes. Plants die off and animals hibernate to awake again in the Spring. Winter is a time to reflect on how things change and how that change brings about new hope and opportunities.

To me, this time of year is all about family. Taking a step back during the cold months to be thankful for what you have and also to celebrate it. Celebrating the health of your loved ones and how much you appreciate having them in your lives. While gift giving is a big way of showing love and admiration this time of year, making memories and practicing traditions is just as important.

Winter Bucket List

1. Make hot chocolate

2. Make paper snowflakes

3. Have a Hallmark movie marathon

4. Take a relaxing hot bath

5. Bake cookies

6. Decorate a gingerbread house

7. Drive around and look at Christmas lights

8. Make a blanket fort

9. Make a craft with pine cones

10. Bake a Yule log cake

11. DIY potpourri

12. Decorate for Christmas and Yule

13. Send out holiday cards to loved ones

14. DIY scrubs and face masks

15. Try out a new recipe

16. Enjoy the cold weather

17. Make soup from scratch

18. Journal a review of the year and intentions for the new year

19. Take family photos

20. Make homemade peanut brittle

NaNoWriMo Prep

November is one of my favorite times of the year for many reasons. The cold weather, the delicious foods, the cozy sweaters, and most importantly, National Novel Writing Month! Now, I know some writers like to dive right in on November 1 with no plan, no direction, just writing by the seat of their pants. And while I think that’s wonderful, it’s just not something I can pull off. My anxiety won’t allow it. I need a plan for literally everything and my writing is no exception. 

NaNoWriMo prep for me begins usually in the summer time as I mull over the different ideas I have for stand alone novels. I like to do stand alone stories during NaNo because it’s a fresh page and I enjoy starting new projects that I haven’t touched before. The reason I gravitate towards new stories is that I like the challenge of writing an entire novel’s worth in just thirty days. It’s like a super power that few people can pull off. That being said, writing and prepping are two totally different beasts. 

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Middle of October I usually have a concrete story idea picked out and this is when I prefer to sit down and get a loose plot outline together. This can be as detailed as you want it to be. Sometimes I find it useful to type out a description of how I picture an entire scene but other times a simple, “Main character goes to talk to a side character” is enough for the time being. Honestly, you’ll change your plot more than once during the writing process so sometimes detail is not your friend. The main thing I try to get down on paper for NaNo prep is who I’m writing about and what do they want. 

One of my favorite things for NaNo is a new notebook. Yes, you’ll be doing most, if not all, of your writing on your laptop and probably your plot too but there’s just something about the first blank page of a fresh notebook to really symbolize the new beginning that is your NaNo project. 

So the first thing to decide during your NaNo prep is, what do I want to write about? What interests me? Who’s voice do I want to share with my readers? Who is this person, and most importantly, what do they want? What are they willing to sacrifice to get it?

When you’re writing about 1700 words per day for a month straight, you want to have a vague answer for these questions before you sit down on November first and begin your journey. Especially if this is your first time participating in NaNo. It took me a few years before I dove into participating. I was in college, I was already working on a book in my free time. I thought between working full time, being a full time student and still wanting free time to be creative in other outlets filled up my plate pretty full. And to be honest, it was probably a smart decision for me. So the first semester I had after graduating college, I was so ready to be creative in November like so many other writers around the world. 

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Also, you want to make sure you have sufficient time throughout the day to sit down and write without distraction. If you’re a mom like me, you want to make sure you don’t have children climbing all over you or a significant other asking you questions while you’re trying to stay focused on the task at hand. Make sure you have snacks on hand, a nice cup of tea (or coffee or whatever you fancy), and a good pair of headphones. You want to be able to focus on and not get distracted. It’s hard to get lost in your own world, let alone create one, when you aren’t able to give it your all. 

Saging Your Home

I’ll be completely honest, I don’t smudge my surroundings or myself nearly as often as I’d like to. But next month we are bringing home our second child and while I’m knee deep in nesting, I figure saging the house needs to be part of preparing our home for the new baby. 

Smudging the home with herbs or cedar has been a staple in Native American tradition for centuries. The herbs used in smudging are dependent heavily on the particular region and tribe as to what is traditionally used. Today, white sage is the most common herb used in household smudging, but far from the only option. 

I have a bundle of white sage and a beautiful abalone shell that I picked up from an amazing spiritual shop in Austin (https://www.ancient-mysteries.net/). I decided to get an abalone shell to hold my sage because the shell itself is not only gorgeous but has amazing protective and balancing energies itself. I like having as many natural elements in my sacred space as possible, so the abalone shell was the perfect choice. I personally like to use white sage because sage grew wild where I was raised in the mountains of NorCal, so it reminds me of home. Saging is about clearing your energies and grounding yourself, so I figure what better way to help ground myself than to have a small reminder of my roots. 

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To start, I lit my bundle of sage and let the flame dance around for a moment or two before I blew it out. Long enough to catch the herb and create a nice smoke. Hold the sage over the abalone shell (or whatever dish you choose to use) as you walk through the house so any piece of burning herb that falls from the smudging stick doesn’t land on your floors. I started in the entryway and worked my way through the natural progression of my home, following the hallway and into the kitchen. Working my way through my entire house in a clockwise circle, finishing the tour in my bedroom. As you make your way through the house, think very clearly about cleansing every corner in every room of negativity. Invite balance and growth into your space. 

When you have reached the last corner in the last room, take a moment to finalize your intentions and gently stamp the sage bundle out in the abalone shell. You can also spray it with water, but at this point in your smudging journey, the sage smoke will start going out on its own. So it’s super easy to finish it off this way and save it for your next cleansing ritual. 

I have been saging my home at least annually since I moved into my first apartment in 2010 (so long ago). Personally I don’t believe there is a right or wrong way to smudge, as long as your intentions are clear and you do what feels right in your heart. I’ve been told very particular practices, such you can’t reuse a bundle of sage once you’ve smudged with it or you have to recite a specific chant, but that’s just personal preference, not law. 

Celebrating Mabon

History of Mabon

Mabon is the pagan celebration of the autumn equinox and one of the harvest festivals celebrated throughout the year. Summer has officially ended in the northern hemisphere and the days are once again the same length of time as night. Days and nights having the same hours symbolizes balance and unity during this time. During this time of the second harvest of the year, hearty foods such as pumpkins and other gords and apples are ready to be collected and shared in a great feast of abundance. 

The sabbat Mabon is named in the 1970’s after a Welsh God, the son is the Goddess who we celebrated to be heavy with child during the summer solstice. I don’t know about you but I found it interesting that the sabbat, along with the two holidays honoring the equinoxes, were named so recently. You can read more about that on this blog post written by Katrina Rasbold (https://www.patheos.com/blogs/energymagic/2015/09/mabon/). 

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How I Celebrated

Bake an apple pie

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Of all the foods associated with the fall equinox and the harvest, apples are one of the most iconic. I chose an apple dessert not only because of its symbolism but also its versatility! Apple pie, apple tarts, apple bread. There are so many different ways to celebrate this amazing fruit. 

Decorate my altar 

Apples, fall leaves, acorns, and tiny pumpkins are perfect additions to your altars during this time of year. Since our energies are so intertwined with nature, bringing foods and foliage from the outdoors into your sacred place can help make your meditation place even more special. At least it does for me. Celebrating holidays and sabbats are very personal, so make sure to do what you feel in your heart. 

Make a gratuity list

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Take a moment to look at everything you have to be grateful for. Even the smallest accomplishments and joys should be celebrated. Family, health, food, books, coffee. Whatever helps you not only get through the day, but thrive is deserving of a place on your gratuity list. 

Declutter your home. 

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Pick a room and downsize things you don’t need. Not only is this a good thing to do for your physical home, but also for your soul. It’s not healthy to carry around all this weight and decluttering your home is a great exercise to literally and metaphorically cleanse your space. Closets and the garage are perfect places to start since these areas are mainly used as storage. We did the garage and the hall closet and it felt phenomenal to have gotten rid of things we should have donated years ago. 

Fall Bucket List

Fall is my absolutely favorite time of the year. It’s the season that I spend all of spring and summer dreaming about. There’s something magical about the way the trees shed their leaves, getting rid of old baggage as they begin their journey towards rebirth in the spring. I’ve always admired the transformation and I see humans replicated the process all the time. Letting go of people who don’t help us progress into our better selves, healing from old traumas. Our souls are a lot like those trees outside your window, sometimes barren, sometimes green and full of life. We are more tied in with nature than a lot of people realize, that’s why I make a list every season of everything I want to do to not only honor the corresponding holidays but also to honor my connection with the earth.

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Fall Bucket List

1. Visit the pumpkin patch

2. Make apple cider

3. Carve pumpkins

4. Bake homemade pies

5. Have a family movie night

6. Decorate for Halloween/Samhain

7. Take family photos

8. Make DIY candles

9. Watch the sunset

10. Give back (Clean out closets and donate unwanted clothes)

11. Fall cleanse the house (Clean, organize, and smudge)

12. Make baked apples

13. Host a bonfire with friends

14. Prepare a fall picnic

15. Go thrift shopping for a new sweater

16. Make a pumpkin and cream cheese loaf

17. Go on a nature walk

18. Go trick or treating around the neighborhood

19. Cook a meal with squash

20. Craft with fall leaves

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Fall is the season for two spiritual holidays. Mabon, the fall equinox and the celebration of the harvest season, and Samhain, which falls on Halloween night and symbolizes the end of the Celtic year. When making these lists, I make an effort to blend the two faiths practiced within my family, and it’s much easier than I expected it, as many of the reserved holidays have deep pagan roots!

Five Things I Can’t Live Without as a Writer

There’s a lot of fancy writing apps and calendars and pretty floral cover everything, but do we really need all of it? Totally. You invest in whatever is going to help you be more productive and creative. Everyone has their rituals that help them get into the groove for making art. A special pen. A specific corner of the room with the best lighting for sketching. The sun at the perfect angle in the sky. For me, there are five essential things I need as a writer. Things I can’t live without and go out of my way to make sure I have on hand. 

An external hard drive– for backups. DO NOT keep all your writing on this and only this. My hard drive shit out on me a while ago and while I lost some pictures, thankfully I had all my current projects saved on my computer as well. Always have your work saved in two or three places, as much as we love and utilize technology, it’s still very fragile. 

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Notebooks. I shop for notebooks like I’m a kid going back to school, old habits die hard. When I was attending college, I had notebooks for literally everything. While everyone else was typing away during lecture, I was scribbling. Attempting to keep up with my professors. Even though I can type much faster than I can write, there’s something about a pen on paper. I retain information easier that way. I feel more engaged that way. When I’m on a streak, typing is definitely my go to, but when it comes to plot and drafting out chapters, I am still an ink on paper kind of gal. 

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Evernote and Google Docs. The thing I love the most about these apps, you don’t have to transfer information. You can access your account on your computer and your phone, and what you change on one, you change on both. When I would be at work and have an idea, I would open up whatever doc I needed and jot down my idea. When I got home, there it was waiting to be utilized when I turned on my computer. Having all your goodies in the same place makes your life as a creative writer a million times easier. 

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A Day Planner. Again, old habits. There’s something about list making that makes productivity more magical. When I see it written that today I have to finish two chapters and do some laundry, I just don’t feel right until I check the boxes that I did those things. If I don’t write them down, then I feel like I’ll never get around to them. Organization is key, and this is how I stay organized. I also keep track of all my blog posts, bills, and my husband’s appointments as well. Let’s just say not a single day in that planner is blank. 

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Music. This may seem kind of cliche, but it’s so true. If you want to get in a mood to get some shit done, then all you need is the right playlist to inspire you. I have a playlist for every single project. Every story has its own soundtrack and when one of these songs comes on, I can’t help but feel the urge to get some work done. I went into more detail on this one a while back in a previous blog. (Insert blog link for inspirational music).

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Seeds, Core, and All

After watching the series Little Fires Everywhere on Hulu (based on the novel by Celeste Ng), I knew I had to read the book. Usually I don’t go in this order. If I know something is based on a book, I make sure to read it first but I figure I’d try something new. The series was amazing. Kerry Washington and Reese Witherspoon are amazing. If you haven’t seen it yet, do so. The book, on the other hand, was half exactly what I was expecting and half a complete surprise. 

First, what I liked about the novel was the writing style. It is a complete opposite of how I write, so it was interesting to see a different approach to storytelling. It’s told in third person, allowing the reader into the heads of not only the two main characters but their family members as well. A lot of times when writers do this, it can feel a bit chaotic but Ng pulled off switching narratives with such grace. It was the most natural flow of view points I’ve ever read. Like all the characters were running a marathon, passing the baton off to one another seamlessly. It was impressive.

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The parallels are anothing thing I admired about the plot. I’ll attempt to explain without spoilers, but Mia and Bebe’s story lines are so complex and similar. They really make you sit back and contemplate morality. What is right? What actions are truly justified? What makes a parent and what determines who is a good parent? Good books are ones that make you think, and this one definitely does that. As a mother, parts of this narrative struck really close to home. Sympathy for a character who suffered from half a dozen miscarriages turns to adoption only to have that threatened as well. The love that you feel for your children running so deep in your veins and having to accept the distance as they get older. The space they need to become their own person cracks your soul because cuddling them as infants becomes such a safe haven that slowly gets taken away. Safe havens, another parallel in the novel that isn’t what it seems on the outside. 

The town the novel is based, Shaker Heights, stuck out to me. Clashing of the social classes is nothing new, but it’s a theme in stories that I have always found very intriguing. How can someone feel they are more superior than someone else based on the square footage of their home? It’s something Ng did on purpose. No one can expose a town for what it truly is than someone who grew up there. Shaker Heights looks pristine on the outside. Progressive, idealistic, clean and crisp. In reality, it suffers the same issues that every other town in America does. Exclusiveness. Pretentious. White, very white. Although other races do reside in the town, it’s very much viewed as a privilege by many community members. “We don’t see color.” Is a common quote that comes up many, many times. It opens up a question that many people are pondering on today, what does not seeing color actually mean and what’s wrong with seeing people for who they are? Is seeing color the problem or is treating someone differently because of it the actual issue? It’s an important conversation and Ng does a fabulous job demonstrating the conflict some of her characters face with this particular topic. 

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All in all, it’s definitely a story I recommend, especially if you’ve seen the show. There are so many differences between the show and the book, naturally, but many of the changes I wonder why they did so. Other than attempting to make the show more edgy and dramatic, I didn’t see a need. Especially the ending. Completely changing who actually sets the fire that is introduced in the beginning of the novel really threw me off. If it’s not broke, don’t fix it, yeah? 

Homemade Pie Crust Recipe

I want to begin by saying there isn’t anything wrong with store bought pie crusts. They are cheap, easy and quick. But you know what else is cheap, easy and quick? Making your own pie crusts. And yes, you can even make them ahead of time and freeze them for convenience. 

WHAT YOU NEED

Ingredients 

Rolling pin

Pie pan 

INGREDIENTS

2 cups flour

¾ cup shortening (I use butter flavored)

¼ cup cold water

Dash of salt

See? Easy peasy.

Use a pastry cutter or a kitchen aid if you have one. If not use your bare hands to blend the shortening, flour and salt together until it resembles a fine crumble. You want the shortening and flour to be completely incorporated together.

Add the cold water and mix well until a firm ball of dough is formed. If the crust seems too crumbly, you can add just a tiny bit of water at a time until the proper consistency is found. If you add too much water and the dough is super wet, then add just a tiny bit of flour. 

Once the dough ball is formed, let it sit for a bit to rest, about ten minutes. Sprinkle some flour on a clean counter top and flour your rolling pin to prevent sticking. Roll out your dough as round as you can make it. I usually hold the pie plate over it to make sure I have enough. Carefully transfer the crust into the pie plate by rolling it halfway onto the pin. 

This is from my Mixed Berry Cobbler Recipe post. A great visual for how the crust forms to whatever pan you are using for your dessert.

Cut off the access crust around the edge of the pan and poke a few holes in the bottom of the crust to keep it from bubbling up. Also, you can get fancy and flute the edging of the crust. This is done with your knuckles like this: (photo demonstration). You can also use a fork, depending on what kind of design you want. There are tons of creative options. This stock photo is a great example of the fork method. It also helps seal a top crust if you’re using one 🙂

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And you’re done. Wasn’t that super easy? 🙂 If you aren’t using the crust right away, you can wrap it up well and store it in the freezer.

Meditative State Of Mind

Meditation is one of those great things that you can really do anywhere. No need to go back, you read that right the first time. Anywhere. In bed. On the floor. In the shower. On a pillow in front of your altar with incense wafting through the air. Meditation is all about a state of mind, not the picture perfect room to do it in. You can meditate in complete silence (if you have children, this one is a little harder to do) or use youtube videos for assistance. It all depends on what keeps you the most zen. 

It’s very personal, much like every other aspect of spirituality. There isn’t one size that fits all. When I first felt a calling on this spiritual path, I thought there was a specific way things had to be done, an exact science to the ritual. I guess that was my own personal experience with religion hanging on for one last moment of influence. Once I did my research and learned that everyone’s path is different and unique, I was sold. 

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Personally, I do the majority of my meditation in the shower. I’m alone, it’s quiet. The water is warm and calming. It’s the only time of my day where I can get lost in my thoughts and center myself. There isn’t a snoring husband lying next to me. There isn’t a child climbing all over my while I’m trying to focus. No cat meowing at me for a meal, even though she’s already been fed. I’m not going to defend myself and remind everyone how much I love my family. Obviously I do. But I very much value my alone time, and this isn’t something that came about in motherhood. I’ve always enjoyed being alone. Even as a teenager, I would often lock myself away to recharge my batteries, because being a human being is exhausting. After I started meditating and practicing breathing techniques, I noticed a huge difference in my mental state but also my physical health. Because, surprise, the two are very closely tied together.

I have a dear friend who is a massage therapist, and she has specific videos she and her family watch on YouTube that walk you through meditation. She swears by them. So if you’re one of those people who would like a little guidance or if your mind wanders while meditating, give these videos a try! https://www.youtube.com/user/NewHorizonHolistic

In our day to day lives, it’s very easy to feel overwhelmed or that you don’t have five free minutes a day to sit and collect your thoughts. I promise you, that if you make the effort and pencil in a fraction of your agenda to your mental health, you will feel a weight off your shoulders. You’ll feel better. You’ll sleep better. Your stress and anxiety levels will benefit. I could make a fifty point list on why meditation is so beneficial, but instead I’m going to go over my personal routine for you to tweak however you please. 

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I make sure the water in the shower is nice and warm. I love hot showers so the hotter the better, but whatever temperature you’re comfortable with. Throughout my pregnancies, I’d get tired standing in the shower, so I would sit. Yes, I would sit in the shower. Why not take a bath? Because my tub was small and didn’t hold much water. This way, my entire body is benefiting from the waterfall shower head. Light some candles, dim the lights, put on some soft music. As you let the water run down your body, imagine all your troubles and stress washing away with it. Let the water cleanse your spirit as it’s cleansing your body. It’s like a ritual. As you wash your hair, as you wash your skin, imagine you are scrubbing away your woes. You are doing so much more than cleaning your body in this shower, you are cleaning your aura. It’s like saging yourself, your soul can hold onto more toxins than any other part of you, so make sure you pay extra attention to this purification. 

Stay in until you feel ready. Usually for me, this is when the water runs cold or when I’ve been in the steamy bathroom long enough I’m ready for some air. Either way, listen to your body, you’ll know when you’re ready to come back to reality. I am usually exhausted after a meditation shower, so I always do this before bed. Afterwards, lotion your skin and drink some cool water. Put on chapstick, do your nighttime skin care routine (if you don’t have one, I highly suggest you start one). After a long meditation shower, I love to do facials, either a nice sheet mask with essential oils or a brush-on mask that you can wipe off. I’m personally not a big fan of peel-off masks, but use what you have. It’s amazing how these little steps of self care truly improve your sleep. It helps you fall asleep faster and stay asleep through the night, so when you wake up the next morning you feel refreshed and ready to tackle the day. 

DIY Sharpie Mug

What you Need:

Coffee mug, matte finish

Oil based sharpies

Stickers (Optional)

Wash the mug thoroughly and make sure it’s nice and dry before you hand it over to the kiddos. We did this craft a few months ago for Father’s Day, so I used the stickers to spell out ‘Best Daddy’ and let her color over the letters. Since my little girl was about a month shy of three when we did this, I let her pick which colors she wanted to use and I held the mug for her while she scribbled. Once she was done, I let the mug dry for a few minutes before I peeled the stickers off. The oil sharpies bled around the edges a bit, but I used cheap stickers I had lying around from years ago so that’s what I was expecting. For the homemade touch of a Father’s Day gift from the kids, it was perfectly fine that the lettering didn’t come out as crisp and clean as if I was making it as a gift for an adult by an adult. 

After the little one is done coloring on the mug, let it sit overnight to allow the paint to properly adhere to the mug. Then you’ll want to put the mug in the oven while it’s still cold and then turn the oven to 300 degrees for about an hour. Other bloggers have done tests on how long the mug needs to stay in the oven and at what temperature, from my research this is the best bet to make sure the paint is baked into the mug and doesn’t bubble up. Which is why it’s important to get a matte finished mug rather than a gloss, since the paint doesn’t adhere to the gloss as well as the matte finish. 

After the hour and a half has passed, turn the oven off and let the mug cool down in the oven. Once the oven and mug are both cold again, you’re all done! I haven’t attempted putting this creation in the dishwasher, so I can’t say how well it holds up. I would stick to hand washing just to make sure the art your kiddo worked so hard on doesn’t get ruined.